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		<title>It&#8217;s not what you say, it is how you say it</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jan 2010 18:35:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Eric Pointer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><a rel="attachment wp-att-1680" href="http://therockstaragent.com/its-not-what-you-say-it-is-how-you-say-it/1461/clarity-photo/"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1680" title="Clarity Photo" src="http://therockstaragent.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/Clarity-Photo-300x214.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="214" /></a>It&#8217;s not what you say, it is how you say what you say, that&#8217;s important OR is it?</p>
<p>It is mostly some of both and a bit more&#8230;</p>
<p>If you&#8217;ve been in the biz for anytime at all you&#8217;ve no-doubt heard folks say things that make you shutter. I have heard novice and so-called &#8220;veteran&#8221; agents alike, well-intended as they may be, shoot themselves in the foot in an &#8216;all out&#8217; effort to protect their clients&#8217; best interest. When, in most cases, the agent had no idea ( because they hadn&#8217;t bothered to ask) what the best interest of their client was, mostly because they hadn&#8217;t bothered to ask or more often than not, they hadn&#8217;t bothered to listen.</p>
<p>I once heard a guy say once that the reason God gave us one mouth and two ears was because He intended for us to listen more than we speak and I&#8217;ve found this to be true.</p>
<p>&#8220;When I listen, I learn and when I speak, I dispell all doubt that I&#8217;ve ever taken the time to listen,&#8221; a fellow once said.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve learned over the years that if you learn to ask penetrating open-ended questions you will, more often than not, gain  insight into their &#8221;why&#8221; and in no time at all you&#8217;ll be able to serve them in exactly the way they need or better yet desire to be served.</p>
<p>By asking penetrating questions and then listening with your whole being you&#8217;ll find that clients often share exactly what their needs are and this will assist you in serving them.</p>
<p>Take time to listen, then speak the truth, not just A truth,  honestly.</p>
<p>Doing so will go along way in growing your reputation in a good way.</p>
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<p>It is mostly some of both and a bit more&#8230;</p>
<p>If you&#8217;ve been in the biz for anytime at all you&#8217;ve no-doubt heard folks say things that make you shutter. I have heard novice and so-called &#8220;veteran&#8221; agents alike, well-intended as they may be, shoot themselves in the foot in an &#8216;all out&#8217; effort to protect their clients&#8217; best interest. When, in most cases, the agent had no idea ( because they hadn&#8217;t bothered to ask) what the best interest of their client was, mostly because they hadn&#8217;t bothered to ask or more often than not, they hadn&#8217;t bothered to listen.</p>
<p>I once heard a guy say once that the reason God gave us one mouth and two ears was because He intended for us to listen more than we speak and I&#8217;ve found this to be true.</p>
<p>&#8220;When I listen, I learn and when I speak, I dispell all doubt that I&#8217;ve ever taken the time to listen,&#8221; a fellow once said.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve learned over the years that if you learn to ask penetrating open-ended questions you will, more often than not, gain  insight into their &#8221;why&#8221; and in no time at all you&#8217;ll be able to serve them in exactly the way they need or better yet desire to be served.</p>
<p>By asking penetrating questions and then listening with your whole being you&#8217;ll find that clients often share exactly what their needs are and this will assist you in serving them.</p>
<p>Take time to listen, then speak the truth, not just A truth,  honestly.</p>
<p>Doing so will go along way in growing your reputation in a good way.</p>
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		<title>Lead Response Times &#8211; It&#8217;s Not Just Us!</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Nov 2009 15:32:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: left;">Ok, so at theRockStarAgent.com we are flat out rabid about responding to your leads quickly!  In fact, on our team in Ann Arbor, all the agents are using Blackberry smartphones and have a habit of responding to leads within 15 seconds of the lead coming in.  Often times, we catch folks still searching our site when we get them on the phone.</p>
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